The Secret of Moslem Smile

When you open the sheet Sirah (history) Muhammad's life., You will never stop amazed to see the glory and greatness of the Prophet personally.

Side is visible from the greatness of poise and harmony within each behavior, his attitude in using all means to melt hearts of every person in every opportunity.

Facility greatest Muhammad did. the missionary and his behavior is, movements that do not cost much, does not require an abundance of energy, down from the lips to the next entry into the very depths of the heart.

Do you ask their effectiveness in influencing the mind, eliminate pain, cleanse the soul, destroy the barriers between human child!. That sincerity that flows from the two clean lips, that smile!

That smile that was recorded on the Qur'an as the story of Solomon, when he said to an ant,

"Then he smiled with a laugh because (hear) words that the ants. And he prayed: "O my Lord, grant me the inspiration to keep your ingratitude towards which You have bestowed to me and to my parents, and to work righteousness that you ridhai; And join me with your grace into groups servants thy the pious ". An Naml: 19

A smile that is always out of Noble's lips Muhammad., In any manner. He smiled when he met with his friend. When his anger or when he was in the tribunal of justice even.

فهذا جرير - رضي الله عنه - يقول - كما في الصحيحين -: ما حجبني رسول الله - صلى الله عليه وسلم - منذ أسملت, ولا رآني إلا تبسم في وجهي.

Jabir narrated in sahih (validity) Bukhari and Muslim, said, "Since I converted to Islam, the Prophet was never away from me. And he did not see me unless he would smile at me. "

One time Muhammad saw. visited a Bedouin Arab, the way, simply he is rude to draw Muhammad scarves., so that the neck of his red marks. Bedouin's loud, "O Muhammad, tell your friends to treasures from Baitul Maal!(center of charity, like central bank now) Muhammad. turned to him and smiled. Then he told his friend to give the treasure of the Baitul Maal to him. "

When he gave the penalty against people who are late and did not participate in the war Tabuk, he was still smiling listening to their reasons.

يقول كعب - رضي الله عنه - بعد أن ذكر اعتذار المنافقين وحلفهم الكاذب: فجئته فلما سلمت عليه تبسم تبسم المغضب, ثم قال «تعال». فجئت أمشي حتى جلست بين يديه.

Ka'ab ra. said after revealing the reasons hypocrites and their perjury:

"I went to Muhammad., When I say hello to him, he smiled, the smile of an angry person. Then he said, "Come here. So I approached him and sat in front of him. "

One time Muhammad saw. through the mosque in which there are some friends who were discussing the problems previous ignorance, he passed and smiled at them.

He smiled from his lips a soft, noble holy nan, until the end of the seconds his life.

- يقول أنس - كما في الصحيحين -: بينما المسلمون في صلاة الفجر من يوم الإثنين وأبو بكر يصلي بهم لم يفجأهم إلا رسول الله - صلى الله عليه وسلم - قد كشف ستر حجرة عائشة, فنظر إليهم وهم في صفوف الصلاة. ثم تبسم يضحك!

Anas bin Malik said, narrated in sahih Bukhari and Muslim, "When the Muslims are in the dawn prayer, on Monday, while Abu Bakr became their priests, when they were struck by Muhammad. which opened hijab Ayesha's room. He saw the Muslims were praying in a row, then he smiled at them! "

So, no wonder he was able to melt hearts of his friends, his wives, and everyone who met him!

Touching Hearts

Muhammad. have melted anyone's heart with a smile. He was able to "bewitch" the heart with a smile. He raised hopes with a smile. He was able to remove the hard-hearted attitude with a smile. And he s.a.w.  ordered his people to adorn themselves with this noble morals. Even a smile as he made the race in the good land. Messenger of Allah. said,

فقال: (وتبسمك في وجه أخيك صدقة) رواه الترمذي وصححه ابن حبان.

"Your smile in front of your brother is charity." Tirmidhi in validity.

Although already very clear and explicit instructions of the Prophet and his immediate practice this, but you still saw so many people are still applicable Part hard on family members, household tehadap not spread from the lips and the smile of his sincerity.

You feel that some people-for being sullen and sour faces, thought that the teeth are part of the private parts should be covered! Where they are in front of the guide this great Prophet! It's far from the example of their Prophet.!

Yes, sometimes you pass your hours with sorrow-ridden, or occupied a variety of jobs, but you always surly, scowling and holding a smile that is charity, then for the sake of God, this is a tough-minded behavior, which should not happen. Wal iyadzubillah.

Influence Smile

Some people when talking about the smile, linked with the psychological impact on the people who smile. To link fine, that most people probably would agree that. However, Muslims regard this with other glasses, ie glasses of worship, that the smile is part of the example of the Prophet. the sunna and value of worship.

The experts from the Muslim and non-Muslims see a wisp of a smile very big influence.

Dale Carnegie in his famous book, "How You Make Friends and Influence People" tells:

"The face is a mirror that is right for one's mood. A cheerful face, a smile full of natural, genuine smile is the best means of getting friends and co-operation with other parties. His smile is more precious than a gift that a man's gift. And more interesting than lipstick and powder stuck to the face of a woman. Proof of love sincere smile and genuine friendship. "

He continued, "I ask each of my students to smile at certain people once every pekannya. One student came to meet with vendors, he said to him, "I choose to smile at my wife, she did not know at all about this. The result is my new found happiness that I felt before is not the end all these years. That makes me happy smile every time I met with people. Every person returned my tribute to implement solemn and race-to-me service. Therefore, I feel life is more fun and easier. "

Joy overflows when Carnegie added, "Remember, that does not smile at all costs, even with great effect. Not be a poor man who gave him, will add rich precisely for those who get it. The smile did not take a long-winded, but everlasting imprint in the memory until the end of life. No one indigent who do not have it, and no one was rich who do not need it. "

What we really need socialization and awareness guide this noble Prophet to the people. With the intention ILALLAH taqarrub-yourself approach to God Almighty through smiles .-, starting with ourselves, our homes, together with our wives, our children, our work together. And we never felt the slightest loss! In fact we will lose, lose the world and religion, when we hold a smile, holding this charity, with the always surly and sullen in life.

Experience shows that positive and effective impact of the smile, the smile of a preliminary as to straighten out the wrong people, and the Prolegomena while denying that evil.

People who are not miserable sullen but himself. Surly means forbidden to enjoy this world. And for anyone who want to spread a smile, forever he will be pleased and happy. Allahu a'lam